Frequently Asked Questions
Let's Play Q & A!
Only…I’ll be drawing from a pool of questions I have been asked a couple of times in the past and providing the answers myself. You only need to scroll to the question you would have loved to ask and read my responses. Let’s get into it shall we?
Personal Life
Yes. I am qualified to work as a Lawyer in Nigeria and I currently work as a Corporate Lawyer.
Firstly, I try to bury/kill the self-doubt and push through while motivated. Easier to say than done but this has helped me most times than not. Also, I try to continuously learn and stay up-to-date with the changes in everything that I’m passionate about.
I love reading all sorts of books and find the activity relaxing and fun. My ‘special’ talent of finding humour in even the most serious pieces of writing, and enjoy getting immersed in the story I am reading make reading fun for me. Also, I have been trying to improve my French so I try to read some French books. This way, I can connect my interest in improving my French with the pleasure of reading. Learning never stops, so why not learn while having fun?
I am 5’8″. I am usually a size 10 (sometimes a 12). In jeans I am a size 30. I try to note the size I am wearing in most of my (style) blog posts.
Although I could definitely use one, unfortunately at this time I am not looking for an intern or an assistant.
Blogging
I started a personal blog in 2015 where I only wrote poems, stories, things which inspired me at that time, and things happening in my private life. The blog was just an outlet for me, nothing serious. In 2017, after practising Law for a couple of years (2 years and some change actually), I became a Freelance Creative Writer for Guardian Newspaper while working on setting up my leather accessories company, RAÉ Accessories. Before then, I had been writing on my first blog which now acted as my portfolio since I was yet to write for any publication officially. It was then (at Guardian) I began considering writing professionally so I began experimenting with the different niches I was good at writing on. This led me to a writing career at Genevieve Magazine. Two years later, I can’t imagine a life where I’m not writing, whether as a Creative Writer or as a Blogger. The rest, as they say, is history.
Although I am yet to work with any brand, staying true to my readers is most important to me on my blog. Therefore, I will be extremely selective when it comes to deciding which brands I will collaborate and work with. I plan to only work with brands/companies that I truly love and would use/have if I did not have a blog. I would politely decline working with brands they would not be a true fit for me or my professional brand. If I am interested in working with you or your brand, I will get back to you within 48 hours. Please read my Editorial Policy for more details on this.
The same goes for gifts – I only accept gifted products if it’s with a brand that I naturally love and would normally purchase on my own. Gifted products within blog posts are noted with (℅). Please read my Editorial Policy for more details on this.
As someone who has started and grown from different blogs, the best advice that I can give is for you to keep writing and always post clear, colourful images. Write about whatever makes you happy and things that you are passionate about. Why do you want to write a blog? Whatever pops into your head is your gut reason for writing, so go ahead and write, write, write! Eventually, everything will flow naturally. Do not give up and never, ever, EVER compare yourself to other bloggers! Keep going and remember to just be you.
First is my work experience! I got my first writing jobs working in the Media & Publishing industry at Guardian Nigeria, and later at Genevieve Magazine, and I honestly never really stopped working since. These experiences taught me how to work for what I wanted, and never stop working for it. Being able to hold a conversation with anyone is a necessary skill in blogging when it comes to meetings, phone calls, events, and sponsorships. Journalism is a great way to practice these skills.
Next is my degrees! My Law and MBA classes were huge gamechangers. Blogging isn’t just about posting nicely-written words and pretty pictures – it is a cut-throat business that requires all the skills that any other business does.
Lastly, I learnt from the best! I worked with both Betty Irabor and Lolade Nwanze for a combined period of 3+ years. These women are both excellent communicators who taught me that publishing (and invariably blogging) is a business – not just fun and games.
Freelancing
Nope! I have worked with clients from different parts of the world (thanks to the internet!).
I offer a variety of payment options, varying from a one-time, up-front payment to 3+ automated monthly payments. I understand that this could be a big investment and want to help you budget for the expense in whatever way possible.
I currently accept only direct deposit payments and transactions through Flutterwave and Paystack but I am working on finding other easier solutions such as checks (cheques), PayPal, and other major payment organisations that offer their services to Nigeria.
A lot! Your input and feedback is crucial to this process. We’ll start with a lot of questions about your needs, your likes, your wants and work with you to develop just the right content or look and functionality, depending on your brief.
I don’t think that’s necessary, but I do think that you need to have a solid command of the English language and grammar or a willingness to learn these skills in order to become a successful freelance writer for an English-speaking organisation or brand. Some business experience, although optional, will come in handy as freelancing is a business and you need to take the business part as serious as the writing part.
No! I’m not saying this because you’ll be my competition in the freelance writing world (the sky is big enough), but because the global economy is unpredictable and you need a steady source of income to survive. I have heard a lot of people say that they want to quit their jobs because they hate what they’re doing, they don’t like their boss, they’re bored, they hate their commute, etc. And they think working from home, in their pyjamas and not answering to a boss will be the best solution. Don’t get me wrong. I love working freelance, but it took me nearly a long, hard couple of years to make the leap to do this full-time and be able to make a living in Nigeria on a freelancer’s salary.
Creative Writing
I’ve been writing professionally, both as a Journalist and a Creative Writer, since 2017. I have to write on daily deadlines, regardless of whether the muse decides to show up or not. So, whether I like it or not, I have to strap myself into the chair and type. On days when I feel blank, I tell myself that it doesn’t have to be perfect, but it has to be completed, so I push through the block and get busy. On other days, I set a timed challenge: I pick a random time as my deadline and then race to create the best work possible. No matter how it looks when I’m done, I know it’s the best I could do at the time and either proceed to proofreading or send it to a colleague to critique.
For digital or print columns, I complete the work then go for a walk or to cook as a distraction. When I’m done distracting myself from the project, I’ll go back to read them aloud to hear how they sound. Then I’ll rewrite/adjust the project, in part or in full, before proofreading it and sending it to the Editor.
For books (when I work as a Ghost-writer), I have an ‘unofficial’ Editorial Team that could consist of my husband, friends and Assistant who are either great editors or enjoy reading great written pieces. I will then edit the book based on their reviews before I send the final version to the client for review.
Nearly every book has helped me as a Writer. I absolutely love words and reading refills the well which I draw from daily. Some Writers whose work I indulge in as much as I can includes Robin Givhan, Suzy Menkes, Michael Gerber, and David Oglivy. The poetry of Wole Soyinka and Titilope Sonuga, including the writing of Chinua Achebe, Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche and Buchi Emecheta continuously inspires me. Let’s not forget the classics – J.P. Clark, William Shakespeare, and Flora Nwapa.
Two writing books helped immensely: On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King and Steering the Craft: A Twenty-First-Century Guide to Sailing the Sea of Story by Ursula K. Le Guin.
Luckily, I am one of those who can write everywhere. My favourite part of the couch is sunken and my pillows usually double as cushions for my back but we are made for this! Hahahaha…
Mostly I write on my couch in the sitting room as I easily feel sleepy when I work from a desk (one of the reasons why I quit my 9-5). I have learnt that as long as I sit down and move my fingers everyday, it doesn’t matter how I feel, whether or not the inspiration hits, what time my day begins, or the weather forecast. I write no matter what is happening, except loud music is playing as that distracts me.
Don’t take ‘NO’ for an answer. In my early days as a Writer, the first couple of applications which I sent out were either not responded to or were rejected.
Make peace with rejection. Don’t take it personally. Don’t believe everything the critics tell you. Feel the fear and write anyway!